Saturday, November 27, 2010

“HOW TO LIVE ’’

LIFE IS TOO DEEP FOR WORDS, SO DONOT DESCRIBE IT IN WORDS, BECAUSE NOTHING IN LIFE CAN BE ANSWERED. IT CAN ONLY BE UNDERSTOOD.SO JUST LIVE IT.:)

So many thoughts, so many ideas, so many views, and so many concepts. and above all only one motive, one moral, one purpose and one goal and that is” HOW TO LIVE”.

LIVE- what is it. Let me describe according to me it is the process of passing time which god has granted to each and every living being on this earth. No one can refute it because he can’t.
Everything in this world is because of one and only supreme power and i.e. GOD.. Without his consent a leaf cant stir. So no matter what he does we have to admit.

Now come to the point HOW TO LIVE. I did not get one thing why this question has arisen among us?
May be because what on earth the supreme power does , is not favorable for us, we think it should be in some other way. and that’s why many opinions, views take birth. Again question arise in my mind, when we all know whatever happens in this world is beyond our control then why we suppose things to be in our favour only, why people get disenchanted with little-2 mourning things and difficult state of affairs.
Actually we all know how to live , but we don’t recognize those things over selves, because somewhere god created a sense in us which facilitate us to have two thoughts simultaneously.

We want the whole thing in our favour but no one desire to follow the path of favourness, exactly that’s the problem why we necessitate some inspiration thing from others while we ourselves have owns. We go to many philosophers, thinkers to dig up the way of life without giving a single thought that they are also simply human beings created by god like us. ya right they have gained knowledge, experience in this field., they have learnt “how to live” and now they are able to share their thoughts with the required ones.
But again my views are contradictory here. If I talk about myself then I know everything about life. How to live but still I need some external power to motivate timely.
Confused confused till the date.
Why why and why……………






Sometimes after hearing trainers I feel
“ har shkas “ zindgi kaise jeeye” sikha jata h’
Par unhe kon smjhaye ki kuch khwab tute h hmare wrna hmse achcha jeena or kise aata hai..

Perhaps this is the explanation at last I find
‘tute khwab”
What we look ahead to from life and if we made so much efforts to get those things. And still we don’t get , then we are hopeless, it is the only condition that make people inconsiderate and idealess about how to live.. Here everybody becomes answerless when it comes to them.
each one can make a speech because divinity has given a inner thinking power of words , but these all powers get vanished when chance is yours to play the game of life.
Again the problem what make us thoughtless while we used to be thinker.
Its luck, kismet,takdeer whatever we call it or its attitude towards life?
Most of thinkers who are supposed to talk on this matter only because its their profession( I m not blaming them) will say its our approach towards life.
If you think everything positively u will get succeed and no one can stop you but negativity in your thoughts will spoil everything.
Who will combat them, who will make them to understand that kismet or takdeer is truly a big factor in deciding your victory and disappointment in life.
Someone has truly said-“ bhagya se jyada kuch nhi milta”
And yes right . luck is really a splendid factor.

So come to the point .lets take a example.someone who worked hard too much but get failure, what will you call it?
Definitely again here would be two approach.
Some will say may be somewhere he did mistake. Or other will say “ kismet hi kharab h”
And somewhere both are correct. but the person who himself knows that he worked hard will definitely go with 2nd view., and he is right because its human tendency and may be because he knows how much efforts he put.


Now take another example
If someone is very lose to another, and very sure that he won’t swindle him/her, and one day other cheated him .and that’s why his life comes to a beginning where he started then what will you call it. I don’t know what thinker’s opinion will be on it but I personally call it luck because the first person has no fault in this case.
So now no motivation can cure him/her, but still because its law of nature , so the person has to live.

He has two choices, either cry for his luck or live again with new relish to trounce his destiny and to beat his fate. If the person accept the first choice , he cant live and accepting second is very tricky task, everyone can’t choose this but still people have to go behind .
He start his life and that is the point where he needs some stimulus, and yes circumstances teach me how to live but each day a incurable pain bother him .” why only me” and he cant concentrate on his goal.
So conclusively what all I want to say
Luck is the biggest issue ever on this earth. We can’t avoid it but yes we can pay no attention to it by concentrating on another things, because life is to live and we have to live.
Many choices of living but choosing the best is called art of living.

When you have to live at any cost then live each and every moment of your life with fun. Good and bad times are the part of life, if it is good time than definitely bad is waiting for you and vice versa.
Because if you have unfavorable situation in that case too you will live, so why not live with laughing instead of crying. Somebody has said that.
Smile solves every problem
It is not that having a smiling face you wont get failure, but it gives us hope that our time will come . we will be able to live acc to our wish.
Because hope is the only vigor which takes back us when we are on the verge of disappointment. Many people comes in our life, they influence our views while we have our own, so it is the rule of nature being expert in art of life you need external hope which comes from others may be our relative friend etc. and we start live again.
That all I wanted to share..
A famous dialogue from a movie that always say” all is well”
This all is well is the mantra which wont solve your problems but it will give you a ray of hope to solve your problems.
I m writing this , it is not that I am a purely optimistic person , but I am optimistic because I don’t want to be pacimstic.
It is your approach towards life” how to live”
If there is life then there will be difficulties surely, now choice is yours. Blaming luck or god or accepting the condition considering whatever divinity does is accurate.
It’s the true way of living on this earth.

We all know it but still cant change our stance with time than cycle runs again and again without no answer… and perhaps I m again there where I started this thought..

So life is to live , so live it without desiring an answer from it. Noone in this world answer it….






DON’T WASTE YOUR PRESENT IN WORRYING ABOUT YOUR FUTURE AND PAST.. GEETA ME BHI KHA H
KAL JO THA WO TUMHARA NHI THA. KAL JO HOGA OR KISI KA HOGA. TOH JO TUMHARA H HI NHI TO USKI CHINTA KYO …… JO HO RHA H USE CHLNE DO..:p


So JIYO DIL SE YAROOO..:):

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