“HOW TO LIVE ’’

LIFE IS TOO DEEP FOR WORDS, SO DONOT DESCRIBE IT IN WORDS, BECAUSE NOTHING IN LIFE CAN BE ANSWERED. IT CAN ONLY BE UNDERSTOOD.SO JUST LIVE IT.:)

So many thoughts, so many ideas, so many views, and so many concepts. and above all only one motive, one moral, one purpose and one goal and that is” HOW TO LIVE”.

LIVE- what is it. Let me describe according to me it is the process of passing time which god has granted to each and every living being on this earth. No one can refute it because he can’t.
Everything in this world is because of one and only supreme power and i.e. GOD.. Without his consent a leaf cant stir. So no matter what he does we have to admit.

Now come to the point HOW TO LIVE. I did not get one thing why this question has arisen among us?
May be because what on earth the supreme power does , is not favorable for us, we think it should be in some other way. and that’s why many opinions, views take birth. Again question arise in my mind, when we all know whatever happens in this world is beyond our control then why we suppose things to be in our favour only, why people get disenchanted with little-2 mourning things and difficult state of affairs.
Actually we all know how to live , but we don’t recognize those things over selves, because somewhere god created a sense in us which facilitate us to have two thoughts simultaneously.

We want the whole thing in our favour but no one desire to follow the path of favourness, exactly that’s the problem why we necessitate some inspiration thing from others while we ourselves have owns. We go to many philosophers, thinkers to dig up the way of life without giving a single thought that they are also simply human beings created by god like us. ya right they have gained knowledge, experience in this field., they have learnt “how to live” and now they are able to share their thoughts with the required ones.
But again my views are contradictory here. If I talk about myself then I know everything about life. How to live but still I need some external power to motivate timely.
Confused confused till the date.
Why why and why……………






Sometimes after hearing trainers I feel
“ har shkas “ zindgi kaise jeeye” sikha jata h’
Par unhe kon smjhaye ki kuch khwab tute h hmare wrna hmse achcha jeena or kise aata hai..

Perhaps this is the explanation at last I find
‘tute khwab”
What we look ahead to from life and if we made so much efforts to get those things. And still we don’t get , then we are hopeless, it is the only condition that make people inconsiderate and idealess about how to live.. Here everybody becomes answerless when it comes to them.
each one can make a speech because divinity has given a inner thinking power of words , but these all powers get vanished when chance is yours to play the game of life.
Again the problem what make us thoughtless while we used to be thinker.
Its luck, kismet,takdeer whatever we call it or its attitude towards life?
Most of thinkers who are supposed to talk on this matter only because its their profession( I m not blaming them) will say its our approach towards life.
If you think everything positively u will get succeed and no one can stop you but negativity in your thoughts will spoil everything.
Who will combat them, who will make them to understand that kismet or takdeer is truly a big factor in deciding your victory and disappointment in life.
Someone has truly said-“ bhagya se jyada kuch nhi milta”
And yes right . luck is really a splendid factor.

So come to the point .lets take a example.someone who worked hard too much but get failure, what will you call it?
Definitely again here would be two approach.
Some will say may be somewhere he did mistake. Or other will say “ kismet hi kharab h”
And somewhere both are correct. but the person who himself knows that he worked hard will definitely go with 2nd view., and he is right because its human tendency and may be because he knows how much efforts he put.


Now take another example
If someone is very lose to another, and very sure that he won’t swindle him/her, and one day other cheated him .and that’s why his life comes to a beginning where he started then what will you call it. I don’t know what thinker’s opinion will be on it but I personally call it luck because the first person has no fault in this case.
So now no motivation can cure him/her, but still because its law of nature , so the person has to live.

He has two choices, either cry for his luck or live again with new relish to trounce his destiny and to beat his fate. If the person accept the first choice , he cant live and accepting second is very tricky task, everyone can’t choose this but still people have to go behind .
He start his life and that is the point where he needs some stimulus, and yes circumstances teach me how to live but each day a incurable pain bother him .” why only me” and he cant concentrate on his goal.
So conclusively what all I want to say
Luck is the biggest issue ever on this earth. We can’t avoid it but yes we can pay no attention to it by concentrating on another things, because life is to live and we have to live.
Many choices of living but choosing the best is called art of living.

When you have to live at any cost then live each and every moment of your life with fun. Good and bad times are the part of life, if it is good time than definitely bad is waiting for you and vice versa.
Because if you have unfavorable situation in that case too you will live, so why not live with laughing instead of crying. Somebody has said that.
Smile solves every problem
It is not that having a smiling face you wont get failure, but it gives us hope that our time will come . we will be able to live acc to our wish.
Because hope is the only vigor which takes back us when we are on the verge of disappointment. Many people comes in our life, they influence our views while we have our own, so it is the rule of nature being expert in art of life you need external hope which comes from others may be our relative friend etc. and we start live again.
That all I wanted to share..
A famous dialogue from a movie that always say” all is well”
This all is well is the mantra which wont solve your problems but it will give you a ray of hope to solve your problems.
I m writing this , it is not that I am a purely optimistic person , but I am optimistic because I don’t want to be pacimstic.
It is your approach towards life” how to live”
If there is life then there will be difficulties surely, now choice is yours. Blaming luck or god or accepting the condition considering whatever divinity does is accurate.
It’s the true way of living on this earth.

We all know it but still cant change our stance with time than cycle runs again and again without no answer… and perhaps I m again there where I started this thought..

So life is to live , so live it without desiring an answer from it. Noone in this world answer it….






DON’T WASTE YOUR PRESENT IN WORRYING ABOUT YOUR FUTURE AND PAST.. GEETA ME BHI KHA H
KAL JO THA WO TUMHARA NHI THA. KAL JO HOGA OR KISI KA HOGA. TOH JO TUMHARA H HI NHI TO USKI CHINTA KYO …… JO HO RHA H USE CHLNE DO..:p


So JIYO DIL SE YAROOO..:):

Bhuli bisri yadein

Dedicated to all my college buddies:)

Gonna miss u all :(

dis tym blog in th form of poem...!!!1
Dis epic is all about my feelings on my going to end college life ..dis is all about my beloved friends who hav made my college days A bst part of my life

Dis is all abt my 2 of best buddies without thm now I cant imagine my living

So here is my first poem( publically)

Share ur emotions also..:)







Safar ye teen sal ka suhana raha, kabhi ruthna manana toh kabhi rona hsana raha.

Socha na tha zindagi itne yadgar pal dikhayegi, in khubsurat palo k liye toh zindagi ka hum par karz rha.

Har lamhe ko tumne aisa bnaya , ki jeene ka mza douguna aaya.

dosti kya hoti h kitabo me pdha tha, par tumne har akshar ko sach kar dikhaya.

Shabhd kam pdte the bhavnao ko vyakt krnr k liye, par tumne un tute fute alfazo ko bhi shai thraya.

Mana nalayki me frst prize dilwaya. Par tum yaro k liye to wo bhi gold medal se kam nzar nhi aaya.

Masti me hamesa avval bnaya, par pdahi me bhi aage bdhne ko uksaya.

Srasparlr wale uncle ho ya principal ka room . tumne apni krtuto se sabko visit krwaya.

Class bunk marna sikhaya, or jab photos ki bat aayi toh poora college chan maraya.

Kam aise-2 kiye jinki kalpna bhi na ki , par in kamo me bhi award dilwaya.

Vikhyat nhi kukhyat hi sahi, par jo v h sabme sabka favrte bnwaya.

Ghumna phirna ho ya khana peena ,tum nalayko ne sab kam krwaya.

Gt ki galiyan ho ya cp ki seediyan, tum dosto ne har kona ghumaya

Wo bsnl ka office ho ya vidhansabha ki library, tum yaro ne hi har sapne ko sach krwaya.

c-scheme ho ya civil lines, ya sfs ho ya prtap nagar, tumne hi sara jaipur ghumaya.

College ki yadein aise banyai ,sach me khoya hua bchapan wapas lautaya.

Wo masti bhre pal yun bikhar jayenge socha na tha , jab maine un palo ko mutthi me kaid kr aankho me sajaya.

Aaj dil me kasak h tumse door jane ki, par yado k har jhronkhe me bas tumhara hi chera nzar aaya.

Ab na ye masti hogi, na ye mja hoga, tum yaro ke bina har celebrtn bemana hoga.

Aarzu h ye sath kabhi na chutega, tumne is kosish ko bhi agr aazamana chahya.

Ye sab likhne ka man to tha , par indirectly tum***** ne hi bhdkaya:P

Par jo b h tumhari wajah se hi meri bhavnao ne aaj nya roop paya.:)

5 astonishing days of my life.

See I am again here with d instantaneous thoughts. This one is concerning my experiences regarding my top. Some will think how it’s a instantaneous thought when I am sharing my experiences , so let me clear the qualms before you start reading this. ya its my experience of 5 days but I have not thought beforehand that I will write on this ,,2day I am writing this directly on dashboard . So that’s why it’s instantaneous …so let’s proceed the blog with TOP. Now what is TOP..As being a cs final student, after clearing executive, I have to undergone through a training orientation programme that’s TOP. After this we get eligible for taking 15 months training in any organization or company. So this is all about top. I was keenly waiting for this because I wanted to be eligible as soon as possible. In jaipur this time 150 students were selected and fortuitously I was one of them. We received a message saying top is going to be started from 13th to 17th.i was happy to know by saying chlo start to hui. I was waiting since a long time . So here comes 13th October. I was very much keyed up because all the seminars of cs were immense fun which I attended till now. But some people told this time it’s going to be boring and blah-2. But these things did not put any unconstructive senses in me. 13th oct.i departed at 6 in the morning. Seriously its very harsh job to wake up early in the morning when u suffer from insomnia. But I have to. So after finishing tuitions I went to that place where top is being apprehended. We 150 students were alienated in two groups and it was gloomy news for me that my one and only friend is in different group. It’s really very true when your friends are not with you ,all the things become tedious, but now I had another choice. Why not to make new friends. And I did it. as a result this top gave me a good sum of new friends. Now we entered in class .we all were sitting then our icsi jaipur chapter executive officer came with a delegate. i hate this executive officer .seriously he is the person who can’t be liked by anyone but after taking our valuable 15 minutes he went away..Really pleased to saw him leaving. Then a lady entered. Her persona was implausible and after seeing her I had a idea who she could be because my friend told the day before top that this time top is in hands of outsources and told some names. So what I thought was right she was harsha mam.. a corporate trainer.. I was really fascinated with her personality and when she started speaking it was just bonus for meall the students were really hypnotized. She was there to develop our personality. Cs, being a corporate job we require these all things. Cs has to deal with all whether its top authority or shareholders .so she gave a lecture on motivation. I won’t say it’s a lecture because lecture word comes with a feeling of boredam.but there was nothing like this. I enjoyed a lot. She gave so many tips how to be positive in life by giving some real life incidents. Believe me all the students presenting there were highly motivated by her. Words came out from inside ki kya personality h yar.. She took 2 hours class but how time passed, no one knows. I wanted to make her to speak more but I could not because rules are rules and that’s the only reason why I hate rulesI was happy she will be there on next day. So after a short break we were again in the class for next meeting. A slim boy or man came. His personality was not so striking but when he started speaking I entertained a lot. Many things I learnt which I did not know beforehand. Consequently after 2 hours this session finished we took our lunch.. That was not lunch actually. And left the place. The day was great. With a new zeal I came to home and its right what we listen have a great impact on us. The one day changed so many things in me. I myself was amazed and my family too. Now here comes 2nd day. Again at 9 we were in class, harsha mam came and smile came on face with a thought in my mind aj din accha jane wala hai. She was with a new session called group discussion. She gave so many tricks which will going to be very helpful further in life. gd session was wonderful , I came to know how superb is the Indian youth. The ideas , the views were coming out of their mind were osum. Perhaps that’s why youth play a significant role in the augmentation of country. Some peer’s thoughts really encouraged me. Overall it was magnificent session. Now come to the 3rd day. Yes of course again harsha mam it was for the first time in life when students were not fed up by having a sole delegate continuously for 3 days. She trained about swot analysis. Each and everyone had to do his swot analysis. It was fine to know the weird goals of students and their planning to achieve them. Means it was giving a sensation how good conspirator they are. Now the 4 th day harsha mam talked about the basic prerequisite of us i.e. confidence. She described how to distinguish underconfidance or confidence. I realized where I am wrong. And literally it was supportive for me to change many things in me. Now comes the English session. This time manika mam was there. A simple personality but having a great acquaintance of her subjects. She taught many things and some exercises also so this was good enough. Now the 5t and last day. All were happy because after this day they don’t have to come here and will get a certificate. Most valuable things then anything. So harsha mam again. This time it was public speaking session and all had to speak on some topic of their choice. All participated with great fanaticism and those who had stage fear were really glad because they got a opportunity to come on the stage. Now the last but not the least session of grooming by sir. Got lots of tricks for how to make our personality remarkable. After this we got the certificate for which the students bear the 5 days’. so to bring to a close it I will say it was a great break for me as a cs student. The excellence and expertise knowledge of brilliant people enlightened me very much. Their leadership styles made to lead the things further. I enjoyed a lot. Now one thing I know that rumors are rumors. Don’t believe them. According to those it was going to be boring but no it was not. Actually I would rather say I am blessed that I got a chance to attend this programme.
The most excellent persons sitting with you and to be a part of such programme where your soft skills are developed is itself a enormous job, What more can a student ask for. It was a beyond doubt elevating incident and would be treasured by us for a long time to come. I would defiantly welcome any further opportunity in life to attend such progarmmes

What a technology sir ji….!!!!!!!!

Hiii
As my blog topic illustrates that my blogs are outcomes of instantaneous thoughts likewise this one is also in the chain…
Today I was thinking what to do after coming from tuition as just after study I couldn’t continue it again…so I took newspaper and started reading it. but it was not giving me pleasure. Because something varied was running inside me. I did not know what it was…and suddenly my cell beeped and I saw 2 messages there…and at a sudden I took my pen and continuously wrote 2-3 pages without having any idea in my mind and believe me even I did not know what I was writing…after completion I found that the whole stuff was on sms chatting…that was all unorganized so first I managed it and gave the form of blog ;so here is my 3 rd blog..


SMS…….what to say about it. No one is away form this…it has become enthusiasm for most of the raising population and also I am not exception. or rather I would say I m blazing example of this,,
Sms.:-short message service…does not it seem so short word but have a great meaning in itself..
Yeh this sms technology is such a magnificent blessing of science for us and especially for me… I don’t know what happens in forwarding messages but somewhere perhaps it gives some sort of jollity.. I truly say I cant describe what type of feeling occurs..so let others use this and let them findout the same sensation…
This miraculous technology has become so eminent that a survey showed the report that in the world maximum no. of fans of sms chatting are from India…and first time I rely on these data’s because I see the living examples around me. and why should I talk about others I just watch me and a smile comes on my face,....here I don’t know it’s a reprehensible thing or it’s a matter to be pleased…but whatever it is. we Indians cant live without this…

Its really astounding to know that most of our time passes in smsing only..cell remains in our hand while studying while surfing while eating whatever it is. actually while doing everything…no offence I am not going to describe the ppl engaged in sms only..actualy here I would talk about me as I am so much addicted to it..i continuously forward on an average of 150 msg per day,..
If one have a look on my records he will say its excellent. which sometime surprised me also..my sent counter is showing 12400 messages which have been done from april to December…can anyone trust; 9 months and 12400 messages..
This record gives me contentment I don’t know how can I be happy by such a absurd thing but still I am happy and I show this record to everyone to whom I can show:P\
With a hope that noone is there who can break my record and luckily I have not found yet a single person. hoping not to find any..:)everyone says me what’s the wrong with you..what happen to you..12400 msgs..dont you have any other work to do and I simply smile by saying I have lots of stuff but smsing is parallel to all dis. For which I cant stop my self..yehha many times I tried to avoid this but no I could not and ya I cant..
Here I am disclosing some of my facts :nobody knows about it except some of my friends..i used to chat late night….but the record was once I talked with my frnd from 10 pm to 6.30 am in morning…..really unbelievable…so here what I want to say Is just how can someone be so much desperated in smsing…
The main purpose of this blog is that I just want to analyse the merits and demerits…
Ya I am agree that this one is great mean of time passing.,for making contacts and keeping them fresh…as sms has given an environment where we find ourselves so free that no one hesitate to talk anyone because neither u have to speak nor u have to show your face..and that’s great. but if I exclude all of this then no benefits are left. and I find losses only..
First thing although it’s a medium of time passing..but today mostly people don’t have time for many important thing but they all have a lots of time for smsing..if I talk about the students who all engaged in sms chatting..they waste their on average 3-4 hours in this…ok we don’t talk about time…then what the era has come…this technology has changed the state of mind of youth. Friendship, love or if it goes ahead then marriage also is just through sms…how can it be possible. you propose someone by writing a sms..u want to friendship with someone only by a sms whom u have not met face to face… wht is this?? and painful thing is that they cross the rubicon, they don’t see that in which way the wind blows.
frankness has stepped in relations ..people talk generously on any subject matter with anyone…so after finding all of these facts I want to state that although it’s a wonderful blessing yet its harmful too..
Lets see what will be future of this…and I m damn sure it has a very bright outlook.. surely in India it will grow up..the telecommunication companies will earn lots of profit…