Friday, April 19, 2013

Love - A Mystery, A Experience or Blend of many Myriad Feelings!!!


Once in life, you fall in love with someone. It might be temporary, might be at wrong time and might be with the wrong person. But as love looks for no time, no place, it only happens, you can’t question it at all. Love is an indeed nice thing ever happen to someone but what if your love is one sided. You love that person but he does not love you, or you don’t even know if he loves you. That is the situation of an unreciprocated love and unrequited love or untold, unuttered love, whatever the case might be. And many of us go through the same state of life.

No one knows when loves start, how it nurtures and how it grows and eventually how it grows cold. You are a happy go lucky person today and the very next day you come across a person by any of means, either through a common friend, in a social meet or through the online surfing. You get attracted to this person without even realizing that you are blowing in his/her thoughts. Seconds, minutes, hours and days pass away and you incline towards this person with no intention, with no clue at all. And the time comes when you start realizing that you are in love. In every thought of yours, in your dreams and even in your every heart beat the person gets his/her space. This one-sided love is twofold affair. In some cases, you are the centre of that one sided love or in some other, you fall for someone. Though in the first case, you might feel privileged that you are being loved by someone, it is equally painful experience like second one when you are the subject of one-sided love. Denying someone’s proposal might be easy for any of us but it equally carries the same pain inside. Well, keeping the other point sided; let’s come to the second case. How would you feel, if you are denied by someone or in case if you are not even able to let the person know about your love to him. The situation is indeed excruciating and more dramatic as well. 
 
Love happens, no doubt it does. It is exceptionally hard to opt intentionally with whom, where, how and when. It is next to impossible that you can shun one sided love. Being trapped in this cage is itself very sad and bad. And what if it is your first love? Despite the fact how it starts, how it goes on and how it ends up, one sided love eventually takes you in to the one of the most painful misery of life. It is one of the cruelties of life that leads many of us in unwanted and undesired and unseen trails.

Then there might be two choices. Either you let that person know about your love or you stay quiet, waiting for some miracle to happen. For many of you it may look like that uttering your love to your beloved and getting the answer, no matter it is positive or negative gets you take away the pain, hammering you daily. But, no, letting know him/ her and getting the negative response, as he/ She does not feel like this, she/ he never thought this way breaks you inside and your so called dream shatters with no sound. And for the day, two or more, your life just gets stuck on the moment, with no idea of moving where and how further. The second case, when you are not going to say that love anyway to him/her, is equally or even more agonizing. The moments, when you know that you love that person, you want to embrace him/her, you want to spend your life with him.  But the pity thing, you can’t even express your love. 

That is the situation of unuttered one-sided love!!!

And here is a short story of that untold one-sided love. One sided love that has been led nowhere until now. Keep reading, will it could ever be uttered to beloved or akin to every 2nd love story on earth, this love story too will get vanished without even getting a start.


....... Continued

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