Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Another New Year, Do Resolution really work?


Just another 31st December and like many other fleeting years, 2013 will soon turn out to be a lasting memory in few hours, when the fresh sunlight of 2014 will embrace the world. Years come and go and no doubt will keep the trend continue but in between what we do, how we live, become memories..The idea of this blog came, when I asked someone to change something and he replied, few days, will do it from January 1st. So, before we bring the curtains down and wish each other happy new year, let me also think some do over, I would make in 2014.

January 1st is generally considered an all together different day and almost each one of us is supposed to kick off something which we are not so interested to do on any other calendar date. Accordingly, animating the ongoing trend and with the same kind of temptation to start New Year with bang, I also thought every possible thing, I should do in the coming year. Should I improve myself better? Should I reorganize the paths, I chose for myself? In short, I was supposed to ponder only on what should I do on 1st Jan itself, that would result in to a certainly a better year ahead.

But soon I realized, possibly with these such beliefs, I started the journey of 2013 also. Perhaps, I made many promises to be fulfilled in the long span of 365 days. But when all those 12 months are about to pass, I wondered, how many such resolutions I kept, how many promises I followed and when my mind is wandering to make such new resolutions, the thing pinches is-

Since the time, I started knowing the connotation of resolutions; I have made hundred of promises on 1st Jan and have broken them as well. So, why the 2014 would be different?  If changing oneself was actually so easy, we would have earned a long fan following until now. But, no, it’s not easy at all.  I realize, 1 st Jan 2014 also can’t be a voucher to a healthier living and obviously why should it be?  Isn’t it just another calendar date that comes after 31st and are not we all going to follow the same routine, doing the same chores on Jan 1st too?. So, why do all of us are so focused to bring out some changes in ourselves on 1st Jan only. Why not Feb 1st, March 1st and any other date of 12 months calendar. If changing oneself is persistent, I think people should start this from their b’day, at least they smear a new year in their life and we can count them too.

When, the 2013 is about to pass, if I figure out, perhaps I did many thing in the last year, which I should not have done, I sheltered many dreams away and opened gates to new ones. I made many wrong decisions, which if not made; life would have been different. So is this what, I resolutioned on 1st day of 2013, perhaps no.

In fact, there is no genuine revamp in life. And if the rest 364 days are going to be same, why should we give control of our life to Jan 1st only. Can’t we start anything new on any date; do we really need any particular date to alter ourselves? We can do it anytime, we want to do. Indeed taking recontrol of our life can be started this moment.

Though, refurbishment of life might not be held true, but do you really think that keep repeating the similar mistake again, just waiting New Year to stop you is right?Do you really need a new year to inhale a new life in to you?Well, you truly don’t need 1st Jan to revolutionize yourself and as the history showcases, you never did. It’s time to impede you from the justifications and senseless resolutions.

You can start today, you can start now.As it is not at all too delayed to embark on, it’s not at all too early to be perfect!!  “ 

The Old year has faded, the New Year has come
In between, what we did, become the memories awesome
We don’t care, until it pinch
We don’t change, until it entail
We party until the dreams are derelict
We curse the life until it offers new wing
We love, we hate, we fear
That's the burden of another year
So, lets the life keep going on
Let’s, cheer the year, lets fade the fear!!”

Recibimiento 2K14
Adieu 2K13.....

Monday, December 9, 2013

And at the End ….

You need to pave your trip alone,
No matter, if the whole clan was meant to escort you!

 You need to craft your conduits alone,
No matter, if the deity was commended to execute for you!

 You need to pick your trail alone,
No matter, if your leaders were supposed to perform for you!

 You need to impede the winds alone,
No matter, if your companions were entrusted to walk with you!

Drizzling, frost or autumn,
The life is yours alone
Yes a time comes when,
Even being delimited by people
It’s the life you need to live alone.

Alone, Alone, Alone
As you was born alone
As, you will die alone,
 It’s the vital ride of living,
You need to cross alone.!!!